Word of Advice

This post was gonna be about homecoming and all the stuff that went on, but I decided to do something that meant a little more to me.

Every once in a while a person comes along that makes you change the way you see something as a whole. That person may also make you open your eyes and see that what looks good may not be good for you. No one should ever make you feel like you deserve less than what your worth and you shouldn't give people the power to do so. If they say they care about you, they probably dont, and if they say they'll be there for you, they'll be the last one there when you need them the most. If you feel like you need someone or something to validate you, then take a look in the mirror and love yourself the way you are, and love from others will come naturally. Dont waste your time tryna change someone or something because itll hurt you more in the end. If someone doesnt meet your standards, dont lower them because eventually someone will come along that'll be imperfectly perfect for you. Love doesnt equal pain, and if the person you think you "love" isnt meeting your expectations let that person go. Dont waste your time when you could be worrying about more important things, that'll benefit you more than your highschool relationship.



I was just on the Segment and coincidentally Nebby kinda blogged about the same thing (well just in more adult terms). She said something at the end that I think goes hand in hand with the point I was tryna make. Read her post here.

"The point I'm trying to make here is a man will continue trying by using different yet creative techniques ... a boy will use one technique and keep trying it over and over again hoping it would work. A girl will take the boy back. A woman keeps it moving ;) "